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Finding Therapy for Anxiety and Depression: Tips and Support from a Seasoned Psychologist

Living with anxiety and depression can often feel overwhelming and isolating. If you've been searching for "therapy for anxiety and depression near me," know that you're not alone, and there are resources available to help you. As a seasoned psychologist, I’d like to share some insights about these challenging emotions, along with practical tips on coping when feelings of anxiety or depression arise.

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Cristina Cutz Cristina Cutz

The Hidden Struggles of High-Achieving Professionals: When Success Comes at the Cost of Mental Health

In today’s fast-paced, competitive world, many individuals—lawyers, doctors, engineers, executives, and other high-achieving professionals—are praised for their accomplishments, work ethic, and ability to “handle it all.” Yet behind the accolades and outward success, many silently struggle with anxiety, depression, burnout, and chronic stress.

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Cristina Cutz Cristina Cutz

Relationship Anxiety: Understanding, Healing, and Finding Peace.

Relationship anxiety is more common than people realize. It can look like second-guessing your partner’s feelings, overthinking every interaction, or constantly worrying that the relationship might end. Instead of feeling connected and secure, you find yourself stuck in cycles of doubt and fear.

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Dr. Deahdra Bowier Dr. Deahdra Bowier

Loneliness and Anxiety as the Summer Transitions to Fall

As the air cools and the daylight hours grow shorter, many of us notice subtle shifts in our mood and energy. Autumn carries a natural slowing down with less daylight, cooler weather, and fewer social gatherings compared to summer’s vibrancy. For some, this seasonal transition can bring comfort and reflection. But for others, the shift in pace can lend to a heavier sense of loneliness, often accompanied by increased anxiety.

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

 Decreasing Relationship Anxiety: Building Understanding and Connection

As a seasoned clinical psychologist, I often encounter couples struggling with relationship anxiety. This anxiety can create a vicious cycle where partners mirror each other’s stress, derailing conversations that could lead to meaningful resolution. Instead of focusing on solutions, couples often find themselves caught in a web of blame, guilt, and shame. However, by employing strategies inspired by John Gottman's research on relationships, couples can learn to navigate these anxious moments more effectively and foster deeper connections.

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Cristina Cutz Cristina Cutz

When You’re Feeling Down and What You Can Do to Pick Yourself Up

We all have those days. The ones where getting out of bed feels like an accomplishment, where your motivation is nowhere to be found, and even the smallest tasks feel heavy. Sometimes there’s a clear reason—loss, disappointment, stress—and sometimes it just feels like a cloud you can’t quite name.

If you’re in that space today, I want you to know: it’s okay. You’re not broken. You’re human. And while we can’t snap our fingers and make the hard feelings disappear, we can take small, intentional steps to shift our energy.

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Silvana Loka Silvana Loka

What No One Tells You About Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder (But a Therapist Will!)

So, you’ve just found out that one of you has bipolar disorder. Maybe you have been trying for a long time to make sense of, "Why does my partner go from planning a surprise vacation to refusing to leave the couch for three days?" Or maybe it hit you as a rock, like realizing the reason your spouse suddenly decided to adopt seven cats wasn’t just a quirky phase.

Whatever the case, let’s focus on the good news: Couples can absolutely thrive when one partner has bipolar disorder. It just takes some teamwork, patience, and maybe a well-stocked snack drawer for those tougher days.

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

Work-Life Balance: Cultivating Healthy Boundaries for Better Mental Health

In today’s fast-paced work environment, the importance of maintaining a work-life balance cannot be overstated. As we strive to meet deadlines and be productive, we often overlook the necessity to set boundaries, which can lead to feelings of guilt and shame, especially when asking for what feels fair. It's essential to recognize the significance of taking care of our mental health and well-being, and setting clear boundaries is a crucial first step.

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Dr. Deahdra Bowier Dr. Deahdra Bowier

Summer Isn’t a Break for Everyone: The Hidden Weight of Productivity Culture

As summer is in full force with its longer days and less structured schedules, we’re often encouraged to "Relax. Slow down. Take a vacation." For many, these words sound like an invitation to unwind. But for others, particularly those with trauma histories or high-achieving tendencies shaped for survival, summer doesn’t always feel like much of a break–it can feel depressing. For some, it can activate internal pressure and reveal just how challenging it is to step away from productivity.

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Cristina Cutz Cristina Cutz

Ancient Healing for Modern Stress: How Eastern Medicine Supports Mental Health

In today’s world, stress is a constant companion. Whether it’s anxiety from work, emotional trauma, or the invisible weight of everyday life — our bodies and minds often carry more than we realize. While therapy, medication, and mindfulness are incredible tools, many people are beginning to explore a different path to healing: Eastern medicine.

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Cristina Cutz Cristina Cutz

When Pushing Through Isn’t Healing: Listening to Anxiety and Learning to Rest

We live in a world that praises hustle, glorifies productivity, and rewards the people who push through no matter what. But here’s the thing—your body isn’t a machine. And anxiety isn’t just “in your head.” It’s your body’s way of sounding the alarm, waving the red flag, and whispering (sometimes screaming), “I need help.”

And sometimes, no matter how many deep breaths you take, how many gratitude lists you write, or how many hours of sleep you try to get—your body says, “Enough.”

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

When we are not honest with ourselves, we first and foremost lie to ourselves. 

In a world that constantly bombards us with messages about who we should be, it can be all too easy to lose sight of our true selves. We often find ourselves changing and shaping ourselves to fit the expectations and standards of others, even when deep down, we know who we really are. But the truth is, authenticity is a powerful and liberating force that allows us to live our lives in alignment with our true selves.

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

Navigating Relationships: The Power of Conflict Resolution at the Gottman Institute.

In any relationship, whether it's romantic, familial, or professional, conflicts are bound to arise. Different perspectives, misunderstandings, and unmet expectations can lead to tension and discord. However, how we manage these conflicts can shape the strength and longevity of our relationships. One of the most effective ways to enhance our conflict resolution skills is by drawing on strategies offered by organizations like the Gottman Institute.

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

Navigating Anxiety in Multicultural Relationships: A Gottman Perspective

In our increasingly interconnected world, multicultural relationships are becoming more common. These relationships can bring a wealth of diversity, cultural richness, and unique experiences. However, they can also present specific challenges, particularly when it comes to anxiety. As a seasoned psychologist guided by the principles of Dr. John Gottman, I’d like to offer insights on understanding and managing anxiety in multicultural relationships.

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Dr. Deahdra Bowier Dr. Deahdra Bowier

Building a More Supportive Inner Voice About Your Body

Summer months can bring a renewed sense of energy and possibility. However, these warmer months can also stir up body image related concerns that can feel especially daunting for some. Summertime often means more social outings, more time outdoors, and more opportunities to compare our bodies to cultural ideals about how we believe we “should” look. The constant bombardment of marketing that targets getting “beach ready” or “summer fit” only increases the pressure.

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

Understanding Addiction: Beyond Substances to a Holistic Perspective

As summer unfolds, many of us are drawn to the allure of longer days, social gatherings, and a little indulgence. Whether it's enjoying a few drinks at a barbecue, working late to meet deadlines, or scrolling through social media late into the night, these activities can quickly transform from leisurely pastimes to problematic habits. This summer, let’s delve into the topic of addiction—not only to drugs and alcohol but also to work, social media, and more. Understanding the nature of addiction is the first step toward reclaiming a healthier, more balanced life.

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Dr. Deahdra Bowier Dr. Deahdra Bowier

How to Approach Body Image Concerns with Care as the Weather Heats Up

As the season transitions and the days grow longer, many of us are looking forward to all that warmer weather brings—more time outdoors, lighter clothing, days at the beach, and more social gatherings. But for many, this time of year also brings a quieter, more complex emotional experience, an increase in body image concerns.

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Sonila Sejdaras Sonila Sejdaras

Understanding ADHD: Alternative Approaches to Improving Health Without Medication

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects both children and adults, characterized by symptoms of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. While stimulant medications like methylphenidate and amphetamines are commonly prescribed to manage these symptoms, they can sometimes lead to increased anxiety. This paradox is particularly relevant for individuals who have co-occurring anxiety disorders, as the symptoms of ADHD and anxiety can often overlap, making diagnosis and treatment challenging

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Dr. Deahdra Bowier Dr. Deahdra Bowier

Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships

Have you ever found yourself feeling anxious when you don’t hear back from your partner right away? Or maybe you feel the need to pull back when a relationship begins to feel too emotionally intense? These responses could likely be connected to your attachment style—a blueprint for how you connect with others that forms early in childhood and can continue to define your relationships throughout life. Understanding your attachment style can provide deeper awareness into your relationship patterns, what activates you emotionally, and ways to cultivate healthier connections.

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